{"id":63942,"date":"2022-11-16T09:18:50","date_gmt":"2022-11-16T07:18:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fnt.ro\/2022\/?p=63942"},"modified":"2022-11-16T09:18:50","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T07:18:50","slug":"mama-cand-totul-se-relativizeaza-nona-rapotan-bookhub","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fnt.ro\/2022\/mama-cand-totul-se-relativizeaza-nona-rapotan-bookhub\/","title":{"rendered":"Mam\u0103 \u2013 c\u00e2nd totul se relativizeaz\u0103 (Nona Rapotan, BookHub)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Tr\u0103im vremurile \u00een care nimic nu exist\u0103, dac\u0103 nu e perfectat, parafat, legalizat la notariat sau \u00een fa\u021ba instan\u021bei. Paradoxul face ca aceast\u0103 dinamic\u0103 de ordin juridic s\u0103 produc\u0103 efecte negative: nimeni nu se mai gr\u0103be\u0219te s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103, copiii apar \u00een partea a doua a vie\u021bii p\u0103rin\u021bilor, dup\u0103 ce ace\u0219tia \u0219i-au l\u0103murit toate aspectele vie\u021bii cotidiene, ba chiar \u0219i pe cele legate de posteritate. Infertilizarea in vitro \u0219i mamele-surogat au devenit practici medicale curente, chiar dac\u0103 aspectele juridice sunt departe de a fi l\u0103murite \u00een totalitate.<\/h3>\n<\/div>
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16 noiembrie 2022<\/span>\u00a0 FNT \u00een pres\u0103<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>

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Globalizarea a \u00eencurajat excursiile \u0219i c\u0103l\u0103toriile \u00een jurul P\u0103m\u00e2ntului, dar \u00een acela\u0219i timp a m\u0103rit distan\u021bele dintre oameni; nu ne mai cunoa\u0219tem vecinii, habar n-avem c\u00e2\u021bi copii locuiesc \u00een blocul \u00een care locuim sau pe strada unde avem casa. Lipsa unor rela\u021bii sociale de facto este determinat\u0103 \u0219i de faptul c\u0103 oamenii nu mai reu\u0219esc s\u0103 echilibreze cele dou\u0103 aspecte ale vie\u021bii lor: aspectul profesional \u0219i cel privat, personal. Se acord\u0103 prea mult timp dezvolt\u0103rii \u0219i perfec\u021bion\u0103rii profesionale \u0219i mult prea pu\u021bin (spre deloc) vie\u021bii personale; hobby-urile nu mai exist\u0103 dec\u00e2t \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care practicarea lor vine la pachet cu dobor\u00e2rea unor recorduri, cro\u0219etatul \u0219i \u00eempletitul sunt desuete etc.<\/p>\n

\u00cen toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 degringolad\u0103 rela\u021biile mam\u0103- fiu\/fiic\u0103 au \u0219i ele de suferit. Ne vizit\u0103m p\u0103rin\u021bii doar dac\u0103 reu\u0219im s\u0103 smulgem o or\u0103 sau dou\u0103 din programul supra\u00eenc\u0103rcat \u0219i aranjat cu c\u00e2teva luni \u00een avans, trecem \u00een fug\u0103 s\u0103 vedem dac\u0103 au nevoie de medicamente, nu ie\u0219im aproape niciodat\u0103 cu ei \u00een parc, iar dac\u0103 au c\u0103zut la pat (bolile incurabile sunt o adev\u0103rat\u0103 pacoste!) goana dup\u0103 o asistent\u0103 social\u0103 \u0219i\/sau medical\u0103 devine imperativ categoric pentru reg\u0103sirea lini\u0219tii.\u00a0Marta Barcel\u00f3<\/strong>\u00a0autoarea piesei care st\u0103 la baza spectacolului\u00a0Mam\u0103<\/strong>, selectat \u00een sec\u021biunea Istorii fluide, a plecat de la aceste idei\/concluzii \u0219i a imaginat (m-am \u00eentrebat \u00een multe momente c\u00e2t din ceea ce a scris sub form\u0103 de schimb de replici \u00eentre cele dou\u0103 personaje chiar este imaginat) un contract \u00eentre dou\u0103 femei, prin care una urma s\u0103 devina mama celeilalte. Mam\u0103, dar nu \u00een sensul mamei adoptive, ci \u00een sensul unui contract profesional: cu alte cuvinte, rela\u021bia dintre cele dou\u0103 femei trebuie s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare conform unei fi\u0219e a postului, iar cele dou\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce \u00een mod obi\u0219nuit fac dou\u0103 persoane care au o rela\u021bie de tipul mam\u0103-fiic\u0103. Ce nu ia \u00een calcul fiica, Empar, este aproprierea de ordin mental, cu alte cuvinte o astfel de rela\u021bie n-are cum s\u0103 se dezvolte \u00een absen\u021ba iubirii, compasiunii, toleran\u021bei, solidarit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i ata\u0219amentului de ordin psihic. Mama, \u00een schimb, tocmai de aceea face contractul, pentru c\u0103 avea nevoie s\u0103 sparg\u0103 zidul singur\u0103t\u0103\u021bii care se ridicase pe nesim\u021bite \u00eentre ea \u0219i restul lumii. Discordan\u021ba dintre nevoile celor dou\u0103 femei devine acut\u0103 \u00een momentul \u00een care mama afl\u0103 c\u0103 este bolnav\u0103. Nevoia de a-\u0219i proteja fiica (fals\u0103, dar tot fiic\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne) determin\u0103 ruperea rela\u021biilor dintre cele dou\u0103. O ruptur\u0103 care face ravagii \u0219i las\u0103 urme ad\u00e2nci, r\u0103ni greu de \u00eenchis, mai cu seam\u0103 c\u0103 moartea mamei survine la fel de nea\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n

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